Aftercare

The ALL IMPORTANT tending to the heart and Bottom of one that has been disciplined. The physical and emotional intensity often take a disciplinee very deeply inside herself, or otherwise into a Headspace or frame of mind where she needs your patient, gentle assistance to come back to Earth. If the ritual and Headspace tend to bring her most piquant emotions closer to the surface, then this can be a prime time to encourage healthier, self-accepting messages with your words, tone, and actions, through Voicegnosis. Often, you've a rare, fairly direct window into her deepest self just after the otherworldly, overwhelming experience of real Punishmentality, so use it wisely and compassionately.

For many, this is the defining emotional moment of healthy Adoring Discipline, when forgiveness and absolution are offered.